Another day of ‘not who you thought you were’ or what if your grandfather wasn’t?

Hi again, now understand, this post is very theoretical. I’m waiting on yet another DNA test to get processed, this time through Ancestry – originally it was simply to solve some other mysteries, such as Ms Rebecca, and to see where my cousins that I see on 23&me -fit- on my tree. But one of the strangest little bits of information or lack there of, has me re-evaluating again, a few facts on my dad’s side of the family.

See, supposedly my father was born a Metz. he ended up adopted, after his father died when he was 11, by an aunt and her husband [that’s another weird kettle of fish, for a different day]. Anyway, his mother was not married to his father, already had another child, and ended up marrying another man, who may or may not have been her first son’s father biologically.

Okay, so if you saw my very first post, my ethnicity is roughly 1/3rd Eastern European, mostly Polish [which makes sense, my mom would be roughly half Polish, a quarter Slovakian and a quarter Roma [from the former Yugoslavia], 1/4th German and French [with no sign of French], then everything else in smaller numbers. And when my mom’s test results come in, I’ll know which is from which side of the family.

So anyway, here we go. My dad’s believed [on his father’s side] family should be primarily German, at least going straight up. Yes, there is a branch that -might- be of English descent, but that would involve my dad having been wrong [he was apparently a trained genealogist, near the end of his life, not just an amateur], and doesn’t match what was on a tombstone, or what is -not- in otherwise well kept records. My dad’s mother’s side of the family is similarly very much German, with a bit of Scottish-English on one branch. Logically, I should show up with about 35-40% Germanic ancestry, depending on how Genes traveled, so, Occam’s Razor, something weird is going on.

Part two, I know Metz is a name that ought to show up, as should a few others. On 23&me, I’ve not found a single Metz. Arbogast, which was my dad’s, dad’s mother’s maiden name, does show up, BUT, connected with family names on my dad’s mom’s side of the family. This isn’t weird – we’re talking -big- 1800s families in one town. This has been the only occurrences of that surname on 23&me – on my paternal Grandmother’s side of the family. Granted, it could just be that not a single one of my Metz relatives have done 23&me DNA tests, but then we come to part three of why I’m beginning to think that dad’s not descended from the Metz family.

There are a whole chunk of people related to me on 23&me that I DO NOT recognize their locations, names, anything. I mean, a big family, sure people spread about. According to the tree, a fair number were RR folks, so they went where that took them. But the surnames are weird ones. So, we’ll see what my ancestry test shows up.

In the end, the Metz family did think my dad was one of them, and he was adopted and raised by assorted aunts and uncles. even if they aren’t blood related, it doesn’t make them not family. Still, this is a mystery and so of course, I’m going to worry at it.

Fun with another Family Tree – Adventures in Genealogy

Hello again, sorry for not posting last week and being a day late this week. Last week was some much needed recovery and then this week I just lost track of time. This week’s topic is based on work on my spouse’s tree. My spouse was adopted, and the state laws, he has absolutely no idea who his biological family is, however, he did 23&me with me, and found some relatives.

One of them gave him some information from the side of his family he thought might be the one he’s from, and in I went, First, I set up a new tree – since we don’t know where to connect them on mine, this seemed a good bet. Then I made the bloody thing private, since its mostly for me to work on puzzling it out.

So, I’m filling in information, start following the hints, and no one is from this area, though that doesn’t mean -that- much. Then, as I’m filling in the details, I find a gentleman who died in this town, and in fact was buried right up the road – of course, he couldn’t be the father; one he was a bit old and more importantly, he died three years before my lovely spouse was born. But then I find his wife as well, and yes, Smith is a freaking common name, but it does show up in my spouses list of surnames, so… possible grandparental match.

Of course, further up, every tree that showed up as a hint for someone else had a daughter born a good 80 years before her father was born. I mean, I get some people don’t bother -looking-, I mean, I didn’t catch it the first time myself, but… everyone? So, my first protip for doing genealogical research is – check dates. Also, my biggest complain with records on Ancestry [which is what you are paying a monthly fee for] is how many times they scramble spouses and children – like putting records under the wrong person – so watch for that too.

Anyway, that’s it for this week – I’m not sure what next week will hold – I’m waiting on my dna test from Ancestry [it was majorly on sale, so what the heck?] and then it will be send it off and wait for the results. I do hope that it might help with some of the weird results on my own tree.

Trying to schedule time

Time has always been something that’s fascinated me, and also managed to elude me.  But I’m going to try scheduling time.  I’ve always done better with a bit of a schedule; otherwise, I just procrastinate forever.

Last week I mostly took off because of feeling sick.  Still not feeling my best; still got a few more days of antibiotics and its been cold and wet.  Still, I’ve some planned out releases ahead for both SL stores.  Thinking a mainstore Gacha release with a fatpack that’s the item hudded for Moondrops this week, and then a new belly ring for sPunk next week.  That will also end up being released for Moondrops, but with rigged items requiring me to do so much more work on that end of things than is does with sPunk [2 bodies vs 6], that those will likely be the release two weeks from now.

Since I also want to bring the other piercings from sPunk to Moondrops, it is possible that we’ll end up releasing a lot of those in one week.  Its not like I’ll need to model things.  But with the Belleza versions, I want to do what I’ve done with the sPunk versions and have the body shifts affect the piercings.  The first conversions will have a slight learning curve, but once the scripts are done, it should be a fairly simple process.

Anyway, I am going to attempt to do a blog post with pretty pictures this week, in and around club and shop work, so until then?  Stay cool.

Another year has gone behind us…

I remember when it would take forever for a year to finish, now it seems like it was just the beginning of 2017 a few days ago.  Ah well, I’ve got my theory on why that is, but that’s not really what I want to talk about.  Last year was a rough one, and this year I want to get back on track.  Day three, and I’m finding a few things hard to get back into and a few easy.  Okay, its never hard for me to get back into knitting, or learning new things.  Eating right and exercising?  A little harder.  Of course, don’t want to waste leftover holiday goodies, so, there is that.  Otherwise I’m eating better, I guess?

As for my Second Life, going into this year with plans on being more regular about releases, and seeing if I can make this thing work.  Granted, its not like I need this to live off of, but I’d like to feel like a success in something.  Also, going to just start randomly DJing for the club as I feel like djing.  I mean, the space is there, we’ve even got the webpage all setup.

Anyway, off to finish tidying up shop inventorys for the new year, not a hard task but one I could easily procrastinate on.